One of the most rewarding aspects of being a pet parent is creating a healthy relationship between kids and dogs, but boundaries must be set. Kids should learn to be polite, touch the dog gently, and use quiet voices. Parents can help kids recognize if a dog is anxious or scared. Teach them to identify signs of fear, including cowering, avoiding eye contact, or tucking the tail. Activities that build trust can create a lifelong bond between kids and dogs. Walking or running with the dog or playing fetch are fun and teach your dog to associate your kids with positive experiences. Here are some steps to ensure kids and dogs have a “pawsome” relationship.
Personal Space
Dogs deserve respect and their own personal space. Kids should learn that they must ask permission before they approach a dog, even if it’s a family pet. When the dog willingly approaches the child, it doesn’t feel threatened. If the dog is hesitant, it’s better to wait and allow some space. When kids are petting a dog, encourage them to use one hand. The dog won’t feel overwhelmed. After a few seconds, ask the child to stop. By observing the dog’s body language, you can tell whether the dog feels comfortable or has some discomfort.
Downtime
Dogs need downtime just like people. Kids should learn not to interact with the dog when they’re eating, relaxing in their favorite spot, or sleeping. Kids understand when it’s explained that the dog’s personal space is like their room, where they sleep. Reinforce the concept that dogs need a personal space where they feel comfortable and can’t be disturbed. Kids should never take away a dog’s food or toys, put their face in the face, or climb on the dog.
Creating Bonds
One of the most positive ways for dogs and kids to bond is to teach training games. Start simple, use positive reinforcement, and make it a fun activity. When kids teach their dogs commands like sit and stay, they gain confidence and learn to be responsible. These are simple commands that keep kids engaged, and dogs learn easily. Give your child treats to reward the dog for obeying. Training can be a fun activity. You can create an obstacle course in your backyard or play hide and seek with dog treats. These activities stimulate your dog’s mind and make it fun for kids.
Enrichment activities are fun and mentally stimulating. Kids can make snuffle mats by hiding treats in layers of fabric and letting the dog find them. Treat puzzles are another creative activity. Kids can learn about a dog’s natural instincts with scent games. Hide treats around your house for the dog to find to keep the dog engaged mentally. Interactive toys, like a Kong with peanut butter hidden inside, are fun for your dog. Kids learn that they’re helping with their furry friend’s care by engaging in stimulating activities.
Supervision
All animals can be unpredictable in certain situations. A young child should never be left unsupervised with a dog. Unfortunately, even a friendly, familiar dog can bite if they feel threatened. Because of their smaller size, children are vulnerable to dangerous injuries from dog bites. Your dog should have a crate or an enclosed shelter that’s a private space where they can rest and feel secure. Encouraging positive interaction between kids and dogs creates a thriving environment for your family. Kids learn about developing patience, acting responsibly, and having empathy for animals. Dogs feel loved and secure when they’re treated the way they deserve.